What Do Girls Look For In A Guy?

Let me ask you some questions.  =]

What is the NUMBER ONE CHARACTERISTIC that all girls look for in a guy?

Do you think it's PHYSICAL ATTRACTIVENESS? Such as, a full head of shiny thick hair, perfect sparkling-white teeth, a chiseled jaw line, tallness, muscles, etc

Do you think it's SUCCESS? Examples: a great job, owning a company, being famous, etc.

Do you think it's WHAT YOU HAVE? Examples: a cool car, a wardrobe full of designer clothes, a beautiful home, etc.

These things are what most men think of when they consider WHAT WOMEN WANT. It's a tricky question.  Even some GIRLS are not sure of what they want.

Well, guess what. It isn't ANY of the characteristics above. Sure, they might give you a slight advantage, but if you're lacking the KEY INGREDIENT, then NO amount of money, fame, or physical attractiveness is going to help.

The thing that attracts women MORE THAN ANYTHING to a man , regardless of whether he's tall or not, hot or not, buff or not, "successful" or not is CONFIDENCE.

SEXUAL confidence, to be precise.

I'm not talking about that feeling of smugness that you get when you think you know how to please women in the bedroom. When I say "sexual confidence", I mean the kind of confidence that a man has who can just attract women NATURALLY.

Clearly, to attract the kinds of women that you want to attract, you need to get your "inner game" sorted out. It is because once you place a high value on yourself (i.e. you know you're an attractive guy), women will follow your lead and echo that opinion of you.

Now, the question is how to get that inner game sorted out?

1. Get your head screwed on straight and FIGURE OUT THE REAL DEAL.

Get past the false belief that women are attracted to men who are tall/good looking/rich/famous etc. One great way of doing this is simply get out there in the world. Go take a seat in a busy part of town, or in the park, and look at the couples strolling around. See for yourself how many beautiful women are paired with average-looking guys.

To get over your limiting beliefs that "hot women go for hot men" (or famous, rich, etc.), YOU HAVE TO SEE IT FOR YOURSELF! So, become an avid people-watcher for an afternoon or two.

2. Realize that there is no quick fix for this issue.

I know this is a drag. But in all honesty, there is nothing you can do that will solve your confidence issues overnight, in a week, or in a month. Building strong self-confidence is an ONGOING EFFORT. It is something that you will need to work on CONSTANTLY in order to get this area of your life sorted out. So, you need to be prepared for this!

And, last of all, you need to give yourself something to be confident about. You need to make sure you can base your self-confidence on something, because otherwise it's just going to be load of hot air that's based on ZILCH.

And if your confidence rings hollow - if you're just FAKING IT - then it won't work. Because women can tell the difference between a guy who KNOWS he's confident and a guy who just WANTS TO BE confident.

So, brush up those people skills! Find out about small talk, how women like to be talked to, how to flirt successfully, and how to make people like you.
Finally, if you want to be the kind of guy that actually has so many girls interested in you then you're going to need a complete overhaul in your thinking, behavior, and perspective.

Can it be done? Yes, what you need to do is to learn the skills on how to meet, attract, and date the kinds of women that you have always wanted (and you don't need to be rich or handsome to do it) by visiting Double Your Dating Inside

What do you guys think?  Are girls sure of what they really want?

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